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Heart Break Hotel.

begreen61 Oct 7, 2013

  1. begreen61

    begreen61 Deadicated JDBA Official Member Brigade Member

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    Didn't have to Gary Her son told her she made the biggest mistake .and told me to not reply to any of her messages because see will try to get me back when things go down hill and he's sure they will.
     
  2. Lone_Wolfe

    Lone_Wolfe Bunker Dweller Lady Devil JDBA Official Member Brigade Member

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    ^^^ This. Don't tak her back, or even grab some to go. She might try to trap you.
     
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  3. hamburger

    hamburger Super Deluxe Double Cheeseburger Knife Maker or Craftsman

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    do like Ron said. keep your cool. in time you can figure it out. i would take a mortage out on the house then not pay it. she gets stuck with half of the bill you get all the money.

    but i think you need to be careful.


     
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  4. Glenn

    Glenn Sol Invictus Knife Maker or Craftsman

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    1) Too bad is wasn't another chick.

    2) Glad you didn't let her move into that trailer in your back yard , and you didn't take up Hook Making. :ross:


    3) Now that I have that out of my system, yes it sucks big time been there before , nothing hurts like a broken heart.

    But it's temporary, take your time to heal then find someone that will be loyal.
     
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  5. clockwork477

    clockwork477 Huge member

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    Sorry man, that sucks. If you need to vent or get some shit off your chest, I got your back.
     
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  6. jujigatame

    jujigatame Slanted & Enchanted

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    Exactly. Initial intentions do nothing to excuse the fact that it continued and was concealed from you. Once might me be a mistake. Beyond that is certainly not.

    Just do like me and don't love anyone. :manganr:
     
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  7. MJ

    MJ a most pure angel Lady Devil

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    I'm so sorry...Not much worse than a broken heart.


    Time is the only medicine.
     
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  8. GODDESS OF VENGEANCE

    GODDESS OF VENGEANCE Crazy Bitch Lady Devil Super Moderator

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    :thumbsup: excellent advice!

    And..ya know..you also have your JD Family to help you through the hard times..don't you ever forget that! :heart: :GOV:
     
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  9. nostimos

    nostimos JDBA4L JDBA Official Member Brigade Member

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    I'm glad a female Devil can say this, it's true.
    On a psychological level, all you'll show her by taking her back is that she can cheat on you again and be forgiven.

    Don't get me wrong, "TRUE FORGIVING LOVE" is a wonderful thing.
    But it shouldn't have to be tested with infidelity. :jdwink2:

    Take this time to work on yourself, get settled, and then move on to another love.
    Use your resources (like the awesome JD:thumbsup:) to keep your mind clear and focused.

    And I have to agree with Glenn, it's a shame it wasn't with another woman, I would have "forgiven" that. :bwah:

    Good luck fellow Devil. An awesome woman is out there waiting for you.
     
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  10. Alabama

    Alabama Average member

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    Sorry, man. Lots of excellent advice given above.

    Look to your financials and legals. Talk to a good attorney if you need one. This will pass but you want to cut your losses.

    A year from now and for the rest of your life you'll look back and be grateful that she showed you what she truly was before it went on any further.
    Somebody much more awesome is out there ahead and waiting for you on a collision course.

    Hang in there. It gets better, and then it gets just fine.
     
  11. tubtar

    tubtar high caliber consecrator Moderator Super Moderator Brigade Member

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    well..........that and Bourbon.
    This is a full blown kick in the sack , but the brilliant advice of our fearless leader is gonna be hard to top. Clear headed thinking with the appropriate head.
    Best of luck, Man.
     
  12. ilovekittens

    ilovekittens Sailing the seas of cheese Knife Maker or Craftsman

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    Sorry to hear this, stay strong. Sounds like your much better off without her in your life. :ssad: ILK
     

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