Too harsh?

[RyanA]

Normally I'm not so great with people. I'm not sure I'm in the right on this. I've been seeing who I thought was a nice young lady for the past ten months or so.

Somethings been a bit off lately. She's been working more. We've been seeing each other less. And things in bed have been less frequent and fun. She leaves her facebook logged on last night. I looked in her message box. There's a recent message to her ex "I love you.".

I'm pissed. So I canceled our plans for dinner tonight, and told her I didn't want to see her until I've had the truth. I also packed her things in case she just shows up on my doorstep and gives me the puppy eyes.

She sends me a text at work saying "I was drunk, yada yada". However there are posts from two separate dates a week apart, both containing the same sentiment. I told her I didn't think that's entirely truthful. I haven't heard anything back since.

I dunno, shes a great girl, but not at that price. Maybe I'm overreacting?

[ballofcontusion]

Sorry- but that can't end well..Bail.

[Mr.LaBella]

Facebook is for 2 things, whore one's self out (like promotion-wise) and whore one's self out. No offense meant, but that is utter BS IMHO. Not being judgemental, but we all pretty much have been cheated on and it sucks.

[scott308]

For every truly beautiful woman there is at least one guy who wants to punch her in the face

[RazorSharp]

Give her the boot, trust me you will be better for it with time, let it slide and you will drive yourself nuts always wondering.

[rio]

Actions speak louder than bullshit, go with your gut , if i was you i pee on her stuff to lock the deal. You get to keep your balls.

[desmodus]

Facebook is for 2 things, whore one's self out (like promotion-wise) and whore one's self out. No offense meant, but that is utter BS IMHO. Not being judgemental, but we all pretty much have been cheated on and it sucks.

the bossface is right as usual.

he uses facelessbook regularly to whore himself out.

[TopHat]

he uses facelessbook regularly to whore himself out.

I'm jealous! I thought we had something special.....

[TopHat]

I dunno, shes a great girl, but not at that price. Maybe I'm overreacting?

"I love you" is a strong set of words. If it happened once, maybe I'd buy the "I was drunk" routine.....doubtful but maybe. Twice? Forget her.

[Glenn]

I think you should buy a mobile home, park it in your backyard for her and this guy to live in.

Hurry while it's still the summer time so you can leave the windows open to hear them doing the nasty.

Glad to be of assistance.

[GlockNRolla]

[gpd215]

I think you should buy a mobile home, park it in your backyard for her and this guy to live in.

Hurry while it's still the summer time so you can leave the windows open to hear them doing the nasty.

Glad to be of assistance.

Oh Hell Yes!

Seriously though....OP you should walk away. But post a pic or two so that we can all make an 'informed' decision.

[Clydetz]

I hate to go against the crowd here... but I usually give anyone 3 strikes before kicking their ass. Don't forget... Facebook is part of the internet and you know what they say about the internet!

[OnceBitten]

I've been seeing who I thought was a nice young lady for the past ten months or so.

Somethings been a bit off lately........

I dunno, shes a great girl, but not at that price. Maybe I'm overreacting?

10 months is not a big deal if you cut your losses, now. Trust your gut, Ryan.

....... let it slide and you will drive yourself nuts always wondering.

Truth

Actions speak louder than bullshit, go with your gut , if i was you i pee on her stuff to lock the deal. You get to keep your balls.

rio should be writing cards for Hallmark.

"I love you" is a strong set of words...... Twice? Forget her.

Yes....THIS. Straight words from a Divorce Lawyer.

OP you should walk away.

We have a consensus happening here.

Facebook is part of the internet and you know what they say about the internet!

Yes......it's the wrong place for Relationships and advice on same.

The Three Strike Rule does not exist outside of Baseball.

[Clydetz]

...The Three Strike Rule does not exist outside of Baseball.

With age comes patience and knowledge.