Is it me?

[Poolshark]

The wife went off to work today. I asked her if she could move my sunglasses and the handicapped parking placard from the car she was taking to the truck I would be using. Are you with me so far? When I left today and got into the truck..no sunglasses or placard. Hmmm not on the seat, not on the dash, not in the glove box...dissapointing. When I get back home, the wife is on the phone...she forgot some stuff for work and can I fix her problem. So I ask "what happened to leaving the sunglasses and parking placard?"
"I did" she replies.
"where?" I ponder.
"on the back."
"On the back of the seat?"
"No the back" she answers as if I am stupid
"You mean in the bed of the truck?"
"No the back" with lots of attitude like I am retarded
Sorry honey I don't understand...where did you put the glasses and the placard?
"On the bumper, you know the back...you couldnt possibly have not seen them."

WTF who leaves shit on the bumper? Those sunglasses set me back a hundred bucks and I have had them less than a week. And now I cant park wherever I want either. AND she is mad at ME

[FireMonkey]

I told my brother one time to put my cell phone in my car, instead he put it on the bumper. I ran over it too. Some people are just wierd I guess..:decoder:

[Mr.LaBella]

*shaking head*


thats harsh!:bwah:

[Stabber]

"When you want something done, ya gotta do it yourself"

[trldad]

Poolshark
Try doing that with something she wanted :bwah:
It would still be your fault.

It happens quite frequently to me with my wife.
I have just leaned to say YES DEAR and You were right DEAR.

what else can you say. You would just get into more trouble.

[zzjake]

With some people you really have ro be specific, maybe she's one of them.

[BennytheBlade]

No, its her.

Next question. :wes:

[MJ]

Oh Gawd!!! :bobert: I'm glad I'm not the only one!!!!!


YOUR WIFE IS RIGHT!!!! :jdevil: :bwah:

[Umberto]

oh jesus I would be pissed.

[tubtar]

Me and the esteemed Texan , Mr. Blade are muy sympatico on this one.
It's her.
J.S.

[langston302]

yip my wifes is the same way.....one of those "you didnt really think that through did ya" types.....

[GODDESS OF VENGEANCE]

:ropeman: I once heard my father tell my mom this, when something like this happened...and, My father would go " yes dear you are right, I am wrong, it's ok dear..your right ":bwah: It use to eat at my mother.......and, eventually she fessed up and admitted she was wrong..:bwah: :bwah:
Don't let it eat at ya...play along like all is cool.....and, eventually it will eat at the other person and who knows what you shall receive in the long run.......:jdwink2::bwah:

[txkaratedude]

You shoulda smacked her real good!! Then make her go buy you some mo shades!
Seriously though, I know it sucks to lose an expensive pair of sunglasses. that's why I have cheap ones to wear every day. My good ones are for "dress".

[Komodo]

Those sunglasses set me back a hundred bucks and I have had them less than a week. And now I cant park wherever I want either. AND she is mad at ME

Dude! The sunglasses are the LEAST of your problems!!!!!!! Just wait until you try to replace your handicap placard. Here in NY, you have to file a police report. Sounds simple enough. Until you go to the station house, and the desk sergant doesn't know anything about it, and refuses to file a report! Back to the Office of Handicap Affairs and tell them that, and they say "So sad, too bad. No report, no card!" Back to the station house, begging and pleading, finally got a report taken. Then wait two weeks to get a copy of it! Off to the Office of Handicap affairs, report in hand, to get my replacement. Only to find out I have to wait another 30 days for a replacement because it was "lost" and might be found! :banghead: :hairpull:

Have fun my friend! :bobert:

[Poolshark]

Never had that problem here. I just walk into the DMV and a few minutes later walk out with another one, no charge no hassle.

[Umberto]

As Bernie Mac said in some movie w/ Ashton Kutcher, "If ya love her, she's always right."

My last gf was so happy when i got this.
When we were around others, she would say, "Listen what james learned."
Then she would point at me and I would say "If ya love her, she's always right."

That made her so happy.
For about a week.

[MJ]

As Bernie Mac said in some movie w/ Ashton Kutcher, "If ya love her, she's always right."

My last gf was so happy when i got this.
When we were around others, she would say, "Listen what james learned."
Then she would point at me and I would say "If ya love her, she's always right."

That made her so happy.
For about a week.


My husband tries this......he remembers what he learned for about, oh, 10 min., then forgets it! At what point did you forget this Umberto?? :bobert:

[Umberto]

My husband tries this......he remembers what he learned for about, oh, 10 min., then forgets it! At what point did you forget this Umberto?? :bobert:

I never did.
I held it close.
I have always found total surrender to be liberating.

[MJ]

I never did.
I held it close.
I have always found total surrender to be liberating.


:yesman: Good man!!!!! Just what I wanted to hear. :woot:

[Umberto]

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too much info.

[MJ]

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too much info.


:bobert: awwww :tiny:

[leanne]

The wife went off to work today. I asked her if she could move my sunglasses and the handicapped parking placard from the car she was taking to the truck I would be using. Are you with me so far? When I left today and got into the truck..no sunglasses or placard. Hmmm not on the seat, not on the dash, not in the glove box...dissapointing. When I get back home, the wife is on the phone...she forgot some stuff for work and can I fix her problem. So I ask "what happened to leaving the sunglasses and parking placard?"
"I did" she replies.
"where?" I ponder.
"on the back."
"On the back of the seat?"
"No the back" she answers as if I am stupid
"You mean in the bed of the truck?"
"No the back" with lots of attitude like I am retarded
Sorry honey I don't understand...where did you put the glasses and the placard?
"On the bumper, you know the back...you couldnt possibly have not seen them."

WTF who leaves shit on the bumper? Those sunglasses set me back a hundred bucks and I have had them less than a week. And now I cant park wherever I want either. AND she is mad at ME

eh?

who puts things on bumpers? lol

[tmik]

on the bumper???! wtf??

[Poolshark]

Exactly..WTF. I am still stunned by the stupidity. I dont know if the stuff was stolen or flew off as I drove away but !@#$%^ just put it on the seat and there is no problem. I'm gonna stick her shit on top of one of her tires.
"Where did you put my shit Dan?"
"Under"
"Under the seat?"
"No Under."
"Under the car?"
"God no are you stupid? Under the wheel well of the rear passenger side tire, right on top of the tire...You couldnt possibly be stupid enough to miss it"

[leanne]

ha ha ha
yeah!!!

payback!

[Poolshark]

Damn...quit posting after me. Pyro is gonna start getting pissed.

[IWantThatKnife]

Dude! The sunglasses are the LEAST of your problems!!!!!!! Just wait until you try to replace your handicap placard. Here in NY, you have to file a police report. Sounds simple enough. Until you go to the station house, and the desk sergant doesn't know anything about it, and refuses to file a report! Back to the Office of Handicap Affairs and tell them that, and they say "So sad, too bad. No report, no card!" Back to the station house, begging and pleading, finally got a report taken. Then wait two weeks to get a copy of it! Off to the Office of Handicap affairs, report in hand, to get my replacement. Only to find out I have to wait another 30 days for a replacement because it was "lost" and might be found! :banghead: :hairpull:

Have fun my friend! :bobert:


That's just because they know you and your string of incredibly good luck!

[Pyro]

Damn...quit posting after me. Pyro is gonna start getting pissed.Sorry, I was too busy putting stuff on the bumper, but I'll be pissed now :spin: :bwah:

[MadDaddy]

No it's not you....it was just very lazy on her part, would have only taken another 30 seconds to put your stuff in the truck.

This sounds like something my wife would do at least once...but she has gotten better.

[ded i]

I agree it was silly to put stuff on the bumper. I lost a leather jacket once in a similar manner and I still remember the stupidity (my own) involved.

But you know what ... it's "stuff." It costs a few bucks and some irritation to replace but no one was permanently damaged. In my long accident prone existence I have found that "stuff" is just not that important. My relationship with people - especially my spouse - is more important. If either partner constantly bitches and holds grudges because of "stuff" there is less time to enjoy the beauty of a deep and loving relationship. Stuff can be replaced. A beautiful relationship is a more serious investment.

[MadDaddy]

But you know what ... it's "stuff." It costs a few bucks and some irritation to replace but no one was permanently damaged. In my long accident prone existence I have found that "stuff" is just not that important. My relationship with people - especially my spouse - is more important. If either partner constantly bitches and holds grudges because of "stuff" there is less time to enjoy the beauty of a deep and loving relationship. Stuff can be replaced. A beautiful relationship is a more serious investment.


Very true....this is something I have come to realize and put into practice over the last few years....having a child that damages or breaks things completely inocently and with no ill will, I think helps speed up this life lesson.

[Poolshark]

That is very Zen, Deadeye, but I'm afraid I'm no Buddha. You are right that it is just stuff. But it is the thoughtlessness that gets me. 30 seconds of effort on her part would have eliminated the issue entirely; now I am out about a day's pay and need to spend a chunk of a day off at the DMV. Stuff can be replaced...The mind I am losing cannot.

[Umberto]

Easy big fella....
she knows she fucked up whether she admits it or not.
just let it go....

just let it go...

take a deep breath and say with me..:
I'm letting it go now.

[Poolshark]

Ok... Im not gonna go postal on her. I am not enraged here. I am just super frustrated with her.

[Umberto]

gotta say it really was a dumb thing to do......

[GODDESS OF VENGEANCE]

Ok... Im not gonna go postal on her. I am not enraged here. I am just super frustrated with her.
I can understand where you are coming from....
I guess maybe? you should look at it this way...just write this off and move forward...it's not like someone was seriously hurt or something..(well besides your feelings) But, remember these things are replaceable.....Life is too damn short don't you think it's time to kiss and make-up....:jdwink2:

[Umberto]

Some day you'll laugh about it.

hey i'm already laughing about it....


Sorry......